...apa ini?

Saya tidak benar-benar mengerti apa yang ada di kepala manusia, sebenarnya. Darimana datangnya sebuah perasaan? Bagaimana kita bisa mencintai seseorang? Misteri, mungkin. Jadi saya iseng saja ngecek Mbah Google soal 'what makes us fall in love'?

Smell. We fall in love partly because of smell. The scent of a bouquet of red roses, for instance, is a cultural preference that boosts the chemistry in romantic relationships. Dr Kristal says, “Smell forms part of the framework that conforms to cultural attractiveness standards. For example, smelling like a strawberry instead of mildew [makes you attractive].” Smelling delicious could be part of why we fall in love.

Love pheromones. Invisible signals are part of what makes people fall in love. “Pheromones are unlearned, and perhaps unsmellable, signals that enter the brain through the olfactory system. They can function in sex, alarm, territoriality, aggression, and fear,” says Dr Kristal. He believes that we choose specific mates not solely due to pheromones, but for other reasons. Other sensory cues are better explanations for why we fall in love, such as touch, smell, and hearing.

The brain. We fall in love partly because of hormones. Oxytocin and vasopressin are present when people fall in love and stay together for a long time. Dopamine is also part of the chemistry in romantic relationships. So, when you’re wondering “Why doesn’t he love me?” you may have to look to brain chemistry as the answer. It’s not necessarily you, it’s just that your brain chemicals didn’t mesh. Lack of hormones could explain why people fall in love

Semua ini (c) suite101.com, ya. Bukan milik saya.

Tapi, banyak yang bilang orang mencintai seseorang itu karena sudah digariskan, sudah ditakdirkan. Tapi... kenapa? Untuk apa kita jatuh cinta? Dan kenapa kita tetap jatuh cinta pada saat sudah sakit sekali rasanya solar plexus milik kita?

Haa, mungkin itu masih sebuah misteri. Ck.

Sahabat.

Ternyata pepatah kalau 'kita ga akan sadar betapa berartinya seseorang sampai ia udah ga ada' itu bener. Rasanya lo bisa ketemu setiap hari--dulu--dan sekarang, selalu ada yang ngehalangin. Rasanya ada yang ngerjain lo. Rasanya ada yang-- ga menginginkan kita ketemu. Gue tadinya sempat bingung, siapa. Tapi gue sadar. Itu diri gue sendiri. Ada pertanyaan yang muncul di benak gue: 'kalau ada dia, lo mau ngapain?' Dan gue sadar gue ga punya jawaban atas pertanyaan gue.

Karena 'ikatan' itu ga lagi ada. Semuanya buyar, pindah ke jalan sendiri-sendiri. Gue ngerasa sahabat-sahabat gue dulu jauh. Gue juga menjauh, kalau gue perlu bikin tambahan. Gue sendiri ngerasa kok. Sama sahabat aja jauh--apalagi sama mantan pacar? Walau gue masih suka sama dia setengah mampus, rasanya gue ga terlalu kaget dia punya pacar baru. Karena 'ikatan' itu udah ga ada. Hak gue apa kalau gue marah? Hak gue apa kalau gue sedih? Dia bukan apapun-- no, gue bukan apapun.

Walau 'ikatan' itu masih adapun, udah rapuh. Percuma.

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Fanfic, nostalgia and etc

Random title is random.

Really, long time no see. Menunggu 161109 dengan sepenuh hati, hihihi. Siapa tahu dia ingat walau kemungkinan cuma 0,5 % dimana hampir mustahil. Wei. Orang selalu meminta hal paling mustahil, ya. Tch. Ngomong-ngomong, gue tadi baca Me, Myself, and My Friend Named Kyuubi-nya 15205060, dan langsung mewek (dan galau) habis-habisan. Ditambah baca For a Thousand Year More-nya Isumi Kivic (ffn, tapi dia bikin fanficnya buat OC-nya di IH), makin mewek aja. Haha. *pasang plang 'Warning: G A L A U' di depan muka.

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...terus, apa lagi, ya? *korek telinga, di teriakin*

Oh ya, saya juga nostalgia sama karakter kedua saya di IH, Henrietta Kotova. Yang pernah di bilang keren sama Dika/Teq dan Seleksi Asrama dengan word count 2,5k (2500 words, bukan karakter). Saya dulu seganas macan ya. Sekarang, ga bisa lagi. Damn, Ryoku mengajarkan saya untuk tidak lagi RP dengan tembok, kalau tidak mau di semprot Dhez dan dibuang ke sungai TT__TT *digaplok Dhez karena nyebarin berita ga bener*

Oh yes, I miss Henrietta now. Gue kangen gimana dia bisa ngedeskrip bahwa dia kangen sama Henry... and that's what I really feel right now, really.

G A L A U.

Sumpah eshaite ((c) Rara) gue galau. All hail om Daughtry yang lagunya enak-enak miris. Terutama yang September. Tinggal diganti Oktober aja gitu, haaha

By the way, nih liriknya :B

How the time passed away

All the trouble that we gave

And all those day we spent out by the lake

Has it all gone to waste?

All the promises we made

One by one they vanished just the same

All the things I still remember

Summers never looked the same

Years go by and time just seems to fly

But the memories remain

In the middle of September

We still played out in the rain

Nothing to lose but everything to gain

Reflecting now on how things could've been

It was worth it in the end

Now it all seems so clear

There's nothing left to fear

So we made our way by finding what was real

Now the days are so long

That summer's moving on

Reach for something that's already gone

All the things I still remember

Summers never look the same

Years go by and time just seems to fly

But the memories remain

In the middle of September

We still played out in the rain

Nothing to lose but everything to gain

Reflecting now on how things could've been

It was worth it in the end

Yeah, We knew we had to leave this town

But we never knew when and we never knew how

We would up here the way we are

We knew we had to leave this town

But we never knew when and we never knew how

All the things I still remember

Summers never look the same

Years go by and time just seems to fly

But the memories remain

In the middle of September

We still played out in the rain

Nothing to lose but everything to gain

Reflecting now on how things could've been

It was worth it in the end

...wew, mungkin cuma gara-gara gue kangen doang kali ya? /menggelinding

'kay.

I just want to say, DAMN IT. I hate life, it's so cruel. Wai? THIS :

Taqi Makarim Hari kamis nggak bisa ikut ke sumbangsih -_-"

NOES, OH NOES, NOES NOES NOES.

WHAT TEH FCUK IS THIS FCUKERRRYYYYYYY?

IT'S LIKE I MISS HIM SO FUCKIN' MUCH AND HE COULDN'T ATTEND THAT EVENT. WELL, FUCK. FUCK MY LIFE. FUCK YOU, WORLD. FFFUUUUUUUUU

...DONE.

. . .

SO! HI!

(waving)

Gue mau nulis cerita tentang kehidupan-kehidupan di SES (Sumbangsih Elementary School) dengan judul Flower Language. Wismilak ya :>

[chapitre 00/prologue : the leaf]

flower language at ses-famiglia@blogspot. there are ami, dani, aksa, etc. =) note: not in story-type, but in blog-type. :D